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Each person has need for warmth and intimacy.


Do you find it difficult to engage in sexual contacts because of your disability?


Do you have a question or are you interested in the services of the SAR?

Read on..

Each person has need for warmth and intimacy.

Do you find it difficult to engage in sexual contacts because of your disability?

Does your handicap make you vulnerable to having sex in a safe way?

The SAR is there for you!



The SAR mediates between people with a physical or mental disability, and professionals who provide intimacy and sex for an additional fee. The elderly and people with ASD also belong to the target group of the SAR. People with some psychiatric disorders can be considered in consultation. The SAR mediates for heterosexuals, gays and transgenders with a disability.


Contact form

Do you want to know whether you qualify for services via the SAR with your limitation? Contact us! Or ask your supervisor to do this if you have an intellectual or psychiatric disability. Also take a look at frequently asked questions.


The Sar stands for Stichting Alternatieve Relatiebemiddeling (Foundation for Alternative Relationship Mediation). The foundation started in 1982 in 'Het Dorp' (Arnhem) by residents with a physical disability.

The SAR has no profit motive and can therefore count affordable rates. The SAR mediates between clients and service providers throughout the Netherlands, and part of Germany and Belgium.


The SAR only works with professionals who are involved and respectful. These service providers are loving men and women. They are professional and often have work experience in the healthcare sector. Read here what different service providers tell about their work for the SAR.


Clients are happy with the sexual services they receive through the SAR:

“I feel stronger”

"I experience more self-confidence when making social contacts."

"My life makes sense again."

The service providers and clients who bring the SAR together, are happy that their contact is warm and familiar.









If you want SAR to contact you please provide us with three dates when we can reach you.
Please privide a call back time and day when you are availbable
Please privide a call back time and day when you are availbable
Please privide a call back time and day when you are availbable

Stichting Alternatieve Relatie Bemiddeling, de SAR

t.a.v Secretariaat

De Skûte 6

8651 CS IJLST

Postal address

The SAR generally reacts smoothly to your message. If you are unable to use the contact form, you can call the telephone service on Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday from 1:00 pm to 5:00 pm: (0031) 06 9 45 99 51. The telephone operator gives no information and does not answer questions, but only record your contact details. You will then receive our information by e-mail and we will call you back.

Contact form

Fill the contact form and we will send the required information. Afterwards we will contact you

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